Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Surviving the Corona Shutdowns

I am sure that all parents out there right now will understand where this post is coming from. We are living in some crazy times right now, kids are stressed, parents are stressed, things feel overwhelming.

Some days I feel like we are thriving, we have loads of fun, make crafts, get all our normal school done for the day plus extra, we take family walks, watch lots of  movies, and our new normal does not seem so overwhelming and scary.






I put together a boredom basket for the kids. It is filled with painting supplies, pompoms, gems, construction paper, playdough, and more. It has been a life saver, they have played with it a bunch. It has been great for the cold days we have had lately.




We have done a lot of baking, Destiny dyed her hair red, we have painted lots of pictures, read lots of books, I have been working on scrapbooks,  and I have been making ear savers for health care workers and medically needy people.




Other days I feel like I am barely surviving. The kids are crazy, there are so many tears, so much fighting, and nothing seems like it goes right. By the end of the day my nerves are completely fried, and I am desperate for quiet. I long for the days of being able to take my book down to my local coffee shop, curl up in the corner booth, and drink coffee while reading. I miss my friends, I miss church, and one those days, it just feel so heavy.

Even though I know that all families are sitting in the same boat, and I know that I am not in this alone, some days feels incredibly isolating.

I know that all this will pass eventually, and I can't wait till it does. I miss my normal life!

Tuesday, March 3, 2020

Our Home School - Mid Year - The Joys and the Struggles


I am currently homeschooling five children, ages ranging from 6 years to thirteen. I love being with my kids, the time with them is precious, and I love being there to see the excitement when they master a new skill, that also means I am there for the tears of frustration, all the good days, and all the bad days.  Home schooling is not always easy.

We home school on a year round schedule, we start the week after labor day, and we end the beginning of September.  We take two week breaks each season, and a short break between the beginning of September, and when we start the next year. This schedule works well for us, it gives us extra time to study subjects the kids really need extra time on, and lets us be flexible with our lesson plans, and vacations. We also no longer have the issue of them forgetting a lot of what was taught over a summer break. Our summer schedule is lighter than the rest of the year.

So right now, we are about half way through our year. This year has brought a lot of growth, along with some struggles, and I would like to share about both.

 Alexzander is in eighth grade this year. He is doing great so far in his classes. His favorite class is reading, he is almost done with his  required reading list for the year. Once he finishes his list, he is allowed to read whatever he wants, and is no longer required to write papers after finishing the books. I am really impressed with his reading skills, he read far beyond his grade level, and really enjoys reading all kinds of books.

Overall, Alexzander is doing great in school. We have some of the normal moans and groans over doing school, pretty typical behavior for a thirteen year old boy. One struggle he does have seems to be over creative writing and book reports, as much as he loves reading, it does not seem like writing is a strong point for him. We will keep working on it, who knows what the future will bring for his writing skills.




Destiny started seventh grade today. Destiny excels in art, she has talent far beyond her age level. We are extremely proud of her skills, and she works hard to continue to improve. She also really enjoys typing class. She likes reading, but does not always like following the required list I give her. We are trying to find a balance of letting her pick her books, and still making sure she reads the classics we want her to read. Finding that balance is proving to be a bit of a challenge.








Kairi started fourth grade this year. Of all the kids, I think I have seen the most educational growth from Kairi this year, she is also by far my most difficult child. She has a tendency to shut down when she gets frustrated, which leads to tears and yelling ( from her ).

She has come leaps and bounds in her reading skills. She has went from dreading reading to finishing a book very fast! This was a huge relief for me, I was pretty worried about her reading skills for awhile. We gave her a smaller reading list for the year, we wanted to make sure she was able to understand the books, not just read them. Boy, did she surprise us! She finished all the books, and passed all the questions for each book by the start of the new year. Since she has finished her required reading list, she is allowed to read what she wants, without having to do papers for the rest of this school year.

She is still struggling with spelling, and handwriting. It is very frustrating for her, and at times leads to tears. She does not enjoy spelling, and I am always looking for ways to make it fun for her. We are seeing slight improvements with her handwriting, but it is still a skill that she needs to work on.

As her mom, it is hard for me to watch her struggle so much with spelling. We have tried many different programs, so far Spelling Power seems to be working the best for her. She is slowly making her way through the levels. I am hoping that with a lot of practice, studying, and hard work, it will eventually click, and she won't feel so frustrated with spelling.




Amelia started third grade this year. She is a very happy, bubbly child, and she is doing well in all her classes. She is really enjoying reading more chapter books and is about to start some creative writing classes as well. Right now she seems to be enjoying reading, and zoology the most. She does not seem to struggle with any certain class or skill.

The only struggle Amelia has is staying on task. Her mind wanders, and she loses focus. I want her to hold on to her day dreams, but I also need to focus. We are working on making sure she gets enough creative time, but still gets her lessons done as needed. So far, it seems to be helping both of us.




Cassandra started Kindergarten this year. She is loving school, she happily gets her work done, loves story time, enjoys time on ABCmouse.com, and over all is a happy girl when it comes to school. She is learning a lot this year, and I love being there for all the little aha moments.

Her biggest area of struggle is with phonics. We are slowing getting there. I have completely changed my approach with her lately. We have moved to less work books, more games, and activities. She is responding so well to this approach. She loves getting out her little chalk board to practice writing. We have a game her that she really loves, and seems to be helping her a lot.  Kindergarten is such a fun grade! I really enjoy it.



Our school year is going pretty well. We have had a few ups and down. I do have my days where I feel like I am failing, some days the stress can be overwhelming, and sometimes my children do drive me slightly crazy. I am learning to take these days in stride. When we start feeling burnt out, it means we need to take a break. We recently had a week where we all needed some down time, so we scaled back on lessons, and watched a few movies based on real events, and had discussions on them after. It was very refreshing for us all.

We are getting close to being done with some of our main classes, which means we can switch to our summer schedule soon. Summer schedule includes more unit studies, a lot of time outside, reading challenges, and more.

Overall, the year has been pretty great. We are excited to see what the rest of the year brings.

Monday, December 23, 2019

Happy Birthday Grandma

My Grandma would have been eighty five years old today. Even though she has been gone for three years, it still seems so foreign to speak of her in the past tense.

I can still remember her last birthday and Christmas before she died. In past years, I had always bought her  coffee and chocolate for her birthday ( once I tried to buy her nice soap and learned not to, instead of using it, she put it on a dish and told me it was just too pretty to use ), and books for Christmas. My Grandma loved to read, and she loved quality coffee, she just would not spend the money on it herself. That last year though, I sat in front of the books at Barnes and Noble, tears in my eyes, knowing she may or may not ever read it. My Grandma had lung and brain cancer, I knew her time was short.

That year, for the first time in my adult life, I did not buy my Grandma books for Christmas. I still bought her the coffee and chocolates for her birthday. but for Christmas I opted for something I knew she would actually get some use out of. My Grandma also loved flowers, so that year I bought her a beautiful Christmas floral arrangement. When I talked to her on the phone, she told me that she just loved the flowers so much but my heart just ached. Grief is funny that way, I was grieving long before my Grandma passed. I started grieving the day I heard that she was dying.

Ever since she passed, the holiday season has been hard on me. Having her birthday so close to Christmas, and not having her here is just plain hard. I miss her so fiercely. If your reading this, and you still have your Grandparents, do me a favor. Love them with all you have, because trust me, it leaves a hole when they are gone.

So happy birthday Grandma. Today I will read a book and think of you, drink some coffee and remember how much you loved the good stuff, maybe have some chocolate cake, because I know you loved it. I miss you.



Friday, September 27, 2019

Goodbye Summer 2019



Just like that, summer 2019 has come to a close! We packed a lot of great fun, adventures, trips, learning, and more into our summer, but it still did not seem to last long enough!


As you may know, since I wrote about it earlier this year, we made garden boxes this year. It was a strange growing year here in Iowa, and our little garden did not do as well as I wanted. We had a cool spring, summer weather that was all over the map, and a large invasion of squash bugs. Through all that, we still managed to get some nice produce. We harvested bunches of cherry tomatoes, loads of green peppers ( which we still have loads more to pick, about a dozen butternut squash, some peas, basil, mint, strawberries, a few zucchini, and some of our other plants may still produce this fall. We are holding onto hope that our watermelon and egg plant has enough time to ripen.




The kids did enjoy working in the garden with me. We have already talked about what we want to plant next year, and adding more boxes!




I had the kids help with every aspect of the gardening, from planting, to weeding, harvesting, prepping, saving, cooking, and even saving seeds for next year. It was a great learning experience for them.




Another fun family summer activity was a family camping trip. We love taking the kids to the cabins by three mile lake. We spend loads of time at the beach, lots of family time, and just enjoy getting away from life for a few days. I am hoping that these are the memories that stick with the kids as they grow.





We also enjoyed several trips to the zoo, lots of family walks, cook outs, swimming, and so much more. We are always sad to see summer go, but we love the upcoming holiday season as well!

Stay tuned for more posts about our wild little family.

Tuesday, September 3, 2019

Revolutionary War Study

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Alexzander and Destiny are starting history this year be doing an in depth study of the Revolutionary War.
We use Story of the World for history, and I did not feel like it covered enough for this subject, so we are doing our own study.

We are starting the study by discussing the events that lead up to the war, this site has some great information on it, and we will be using it as a guideline for this portion of our study.

We are going to travel through the War using this simulation.

We will take some time to learn about some of the women who play important parts in the war, including a women who became a man so she could fight!

We will be completing this lapbook.

A couple fun activities we will be doing are using code and making invisible ink.

I will have them each pick a book about the war to read, and they will write a small paper about the book.

Other resources will be using -
Local library for books
DK Witness American Revolution
Youtube for videos on the subject





3rd Grade Required Reading

The new school year is fast approaching. I have been working away on getting everything ready.
We start our new year of school September 9th.

We prefer to have the kids read classic novels for their required reading class. I feel that classic novels help them expand their vocabulary, open their minds to the ways of the past, and show struggles we no longer face today, among many other things.

Amelia will be entering third grade this year. She will be reading the following books and book reviews on each book.  We are using this worksheet for each review.


Book list -
The Giving Tree
Adventures of Little Bear ( I do not recommend buying this amazon, I bought mine at a book store years ago, for very little. I would suggest looking at ebay for it. )
Adventures of Paddington Bear

Amelia is still what I would consider a fairly new reader, so I am keeping her list small. If she completes this list quickly, I will be having her read The Magic Tree House series, as she can.

4th Grade Required Reading

The new school year is fast approaching. I have been working away on getting everything ready.
We start our new year of school September 9th.

We prefer to have the kids read classic novels for their required reading class. I feel that classic novels help them expand their vocabulary, open their minds to the ways of the past, and show struggles we no longer face today, among many other things.

Kairi will be entering fourth grade this year, she has come a long way in her reading, but she still is a little behind most kids her age when it comes to reading. We are starting with some easier readers, and hoping to work our way up this year.

She will be reading the following books and book reviews on each book.  We are using this worksheet for each review.

Book list -
The Adventures of Grandfather Frog
The Adventures of Jerry Muskrat
The Adventures of Paddy the Beaver
( I would suggest looking for these books at half priced or on ebay )

The Complete Tales of Winnie the Pooh
Charlotte's Web

Let Them Play

 Let them play Let them play, they are only little so long. "But what about their workbooks", asks doubt as it whispers in my ear....